Dear Ex Girlfriend part II
Oh, it was so nice to post my previous message. Mainly because it provided some sort of therapeutic release, but also because I know you read it. Yes, this too shall be read and it feels nice to get this out there since you don't have the courtesy or maturity to discuss anything. However, I should have seen that coming. As I look back on the past couple of years I now realize that your level of maturity was far below your chronological age. It appeared that your hierarchy of needs includes drama. I never realized it was a necessity until I met you. There are so many things that I could put in this post, however, that would be too easy. Just a little advice as you continue down your path of whatever it is you do: Be mature enough to discuss things with people. Don't let friends, therapists, etc. dictate your life. Live your own life. I actually say that with sincerity. As I reflect back on the life you've had and the experiences/relationships you've had, I can't help but feel a little sorry for you and the shallow relationships in which you surround yourself. I'm not sure if you've moved on to your next great adventure, but be careful and it's alright to hold back on the first date. If you do, he might actually respect you.
mww
6 comments:
sorry but is it not hypocritical to call her out for not discussing things with people but then you post on a blog to talk to her? Isn't this all rather immature? Pick up a phone, go out to coffee. Stop hiding behind your computers.
I have to agree with the previous anonymous post, however I will say that I don't mind reading about it either. :)
-ML
i also find it hypocritical that someone 'might actually respect' the ex GF...uh, she's your EX-GF! Evidently you at one time had 'actually respect[ed]' her, and if you didn't...uh, jokes on you. you just put your douche-y self on blast, not the idiot ex-GF you were so desperately trying to hurt. just sayin'
TA in CA
i resent the fact that you comment on her not holding back on the first date. therefore, i think that maybe she didn't with you. but doesn't that also mean you didn't hold back? it takes two to tango, sweatheart. i hate double standards.
I understand everyone's thoughts and respect them. However, I did ask to meet up for a coffee. I was told that she needed some time to think, but we would talk next week. Well, next week, she was with someone else. Try to understand how that feels. Yes, it's harsh, but at least I'm able to get this out. If I really wanted to be cruel, I would use her name.
shit. I wrote the first post. I know how that feels all too well. Write away. I fully encourage usage of first middle and last name.
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