So you're going on date 3 in a one-week period with this guy. A nice guy, a decent one that treats you with respect and talks on your level, has a good job, loves his family, and is genuine and kind. Please, please please do not screw this up with your belief that guys like this simply don't exist. Hang on to this one and act like a grownup who is capable of being in a grownup relationship, and stop thinking that you only fall for the asshole guys you think you can change. I am crossing my fingers for you because you don't want this guy to be the one that got away.